2. Be Honest With Yourself - "I am a REAL drug addict." Until ready to admit who we are we're playing games. You are a nicotine addict and it is every bit as real and permanent as alcoholism. We cannot cure or kill our chemical dependency but only arrest it and live comfortably ever after. Yes, just one rule ... no nicotine today!
3. Just One Day at a Time - Forget about quitting forever, the biggest psychological bite imaginable. Instead, adopt a manageable "one day at a time" recovery philosophy.
4. Physical Withdrawal - Unless replenished, every two hours the amount of nicotine remaining in your bloodstream declines by half. When quitting, all nicotine, 100 percent, will have passed from the body within 72 hours of ending all use. Physical nicotine withdrawal peaks in intensity within 3 days and within 2 to 3 weeks the brain physically re-adjusts to functioning without nicotine.
5. Subconscious Cue Extinguishment - You've conditioned your subconscious to expect a new supply of nicotine upon encountering specific times, locations, activities, people or emotions. The process of reconditioning and breaking or extinguishing these use cues peaks during the first week, at about day three. All but infrequent or seasonal use cues are extinguished within a few weeks.
6. Emotional Recovery - Chemical dependency upon nicotine was probably the most intense and repetitive relationship we've ever known. Be prepared to experience a normal sense of emotional loss. Expect to travel through and experience six different emotional phases: (1) denial, (2) anger, (3) bargaining, (4) depression, (5) acceptance, and (6) complacency.
7. Conscious Thought Fixation - Recovery's final layer, thought fixation, is the least intense yet longest. The rational thinking mind finds itself fixating on old nicotine use memories. With each passing day such thoughts gradually grow fewer, shorter in duration and generally less intense.
8. Withdrawal Symptoms - As strange as it sounds, withdrawal symptoms are good not bad. What truer signs of healing could there be? Within reason, it is fairly safe to blame most of what you'll feel during the first three days on recovery. After that, if at all concerned get seen and evaluated as cigarettes with 4,000 chemicals may have been masking a hidden condition.
9. Record Your Motivations - In the heat of battle it's normal for the mind to forget many of the reasons that motivated us to commence recovery. Imagine being able to reach for a loving reminder card or letter listing all your core motivations when experiencing a crave episode.
10. Don't Skip Meals - Nicotine was our spoon, releasing stored fats and sugars into our bloodstream. It allowed us to skip meals without experiencing blood-sugar swing symptoms such as an inability to concentrate or hunger related anxieties. Eat small, healthy and often.
11. Three Days of Natural Juices - If your diet allows, drink extra natural acidic fruit juice the first three days. Acidic juices not only aid in more quickly eliminating the alkaloid nicotine from the bloodstream, they help stabilize blood sugars and avoid needless blood-sugar swing related symptoms.
12. Weight Gain - It's normal to want to use food as a substitute dopamine pathway stimulation crutch, in an attempt to satisfy nicotine wanting with food. But still, you'd need to gain at least 75 extra pounds in order to equal the health risks associated with smoking one pack-a-day. If feeling compelled to eat more, consider eating low calorie vegetables and fruits. If concerned about weight gain add a bit of extra activity and calorie burning to your day.
13. Stress Related Anxieties - Contrary to popular thinking, smoking nicotine does not relieve stress but only nicotine's own absence. Nicotine is an alkaloid and stress is an acid-producing event capable of quickly neutralizing the body's nicotine reserves. It's hard work being a nicotine addict as we added early withdrawal to every stressful event.
14. Quitting for Others - We cannot quit for others. It must be our gift to us. Quitting for a child, spouse, parent, friend, a developing fetus, employer or doctor creates a natural sense of self-deprivation that eats away at our underlying resolve and eventually results in relapse.
15 Attitude - A positive can-do attitude is important to both the conscious thinking mind and the primitive impulsive mind which controls the body's fight or flight panic response. The more needless fears you dump, the more healing you'll sense.
16. Patience - Years of satisfying rapidly falling blood-serum nicotine levels conditioned us to be extremely impatient. Baby steps, just one hour, challenge and day at a time and then celebrate the full and complete victory just experienced.
17. Keeping or Carrying Smoked or Smokeless Tobacco or NRT - Get rid of all nicotine delivery devices, including replacement nicotine products. Keeping cigarettes when quitting is like someone on suicide watch carrying a loaded gun. Why play games with your life?
18. Caffeine/Nicotine Interaction - Nicotine doubles the rate by which the body depletes caffeine. Expect your normal blood caffeine level to double if no intake reduction is made after quitting. Reduction is not a concern if you could handle a doubling of your normal caffeine intake without experiencing symptoms. Consider a modest reduction of up to half if troubled by anxieties or difficulty sleeping.
19. Crave Episodes Less than Three Minutes - In contrast to conscious thought fixation (the "nice juicy steak" type thinking that can last as long as you have the ability to maintain focus), no subconsciously triggered crave episode will last longer than three minutes.
20. Time Distortion Symptom - Cessation causes significant time distortion. Although crave episodes only last a couple of minutes, the minutes can feel like hours. Keep a clock handy.
21. Crave Coping Techniques - One crave coping method is to practice slow deep breathing while briefly clearing your mind of all needless chatter, while focusing on your favorite person, place or thing. Another popular three minute coping exercise is to say your ABCs while associating each letter with your favorite food, person or place.
22. Embracing Craves - Another coping technique is to mentally reach out and embrace your craves. A crave cannot cut you, burn you, kill you, or make you bleed. Try to be brave just once. In your mind, wrap your arms around the crave's anxiety energy and then feel as it slowly fizzles and dies while within your embrace. Yes, another trigger bites the dust and victory is yours!
23. Confront Crave Triggers - Within two weeks, you'll begin to realize and notice that everything you did while nicotine's slave can again be comfortably done without it, and often better. Meet, greet and defeat your triggers. Don't hide from them.
24. Alcohol Use - There's one exception. Research suggests that alcohol use is associated with roughly 50% of all relapses. Be extremely careful with early alcohol use during the first couple of weeks.
25. No Legitimate Excuse for Relapse - Recognize that nicotine use cannot solve any crisis.
26. Avoid All Crutches - A crutch is any form of recovery reliance that is leaned upon so heavily that if quickly removed would likely result in loss of support and relapse.
27. The Smoking Dream - Be prepared for the possibility of extremely vivid dreams as tobacco odors released by healing tissues meet an enhanced sense of smell and taste. A sign of healing, they are good not bad.
28. Only One Rule - There was always only one rule. If you take a puff, you have to go back. One equals all, lapse equals relapse, one puff will always be too many, while thousands never enough!
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30. Relapse - There are only two good reasons to take a
puff after quitting. You decide you want to go back to your old level
of consumption until it either cripples or kills you, or you decide
you really enjoy withdrawal and want to make it last forever. So long
as neither of these options appeals to you, consider living an
amazingly simple alternative - no nicotine just one day at a time.
Never Take Another Puff, Dip or Chew!