How will you navigate the up to 72 hours needed to remove all nicotine from your body so that you can achieve peak withdrawal and begin sensing the underlying current of anxieties start to gradually ease off? If the marketing hype of those selling quit smoking aids is to be believed, it's almost impossible to quit without them. Frankly, nothing could be further from the truth.
A July 2013 Gallup Poll found that more ex-smokers had quit cold turkey than by all other methods combined. It also found that after 40 years of Nicorette sales and billions spent on marketing, that just 1 in 100 ex-smokers credited nicotine gum for their success. Talk about impossible, how can the brain possibly adjust to functioning without nicotine when it continues to arrive?
The Gallup Poll also found that only a tiny fraction of all ex-smokers credited any form of approved quitting product for their success, just 8 percent. The tail has not only been wagging the dog, it's killing it. Read Neal's quitting journal. Why wait too long before getting serious? The time to arrest your addiction to nicotine is now.
Take your own survey of those who have been off of all nicotine for at least one year. You'll discover that the vast majority quit smoking cold turkey. The below quit smoking tips will enhance your odd that No Smoking Day will be the most victorious day of your life.
1. The Law of Addiction - "Administration of a drug to an addict will cause re-establishment of chemical dependence upon the addictive substance at the old level of use or greater." Yes, just one powerful puff of nicotine and all your hard work is down the drain. Adherence to just one rule guarantees success to all ... Never Take Another Puff.
Nicotine has rewired your brain, growing millions of nicotinic receptors in eleven different regions. Although your mind's nicotine induced dopamine/adrenaline intoxication is an alert high, your chemical dependency is every bit as real and permanent as alcoholism. Treating a true addiction as though it were some nasty little habit is a recipe for relapse. There is no such thing as just one puff. Nicotine dependency recovery truly is an all or nothing proposition.
2. Measuring Victory - Forget about quitting "forever." Like attempting the seemingly impossible task of eating an entire elephant, it's the biggest psychological bite imaginable. Instead, adopt a realistic and do-able victory yardstick that celebrates freedom and healing an hour, challenge and day at a time. Think about it. If you insist on seeing success only in terms of quitting forever then on which day will you celebrate?
3. Emotional Phases - Chemical dependency upon smoking nicotine is one of the most intense, repetitive and dependable relationships you've likely ever known. It has infected almost every aspect of your life and thinking. Be prepared to experience a normal sense of emotional loss when quitting that gradually transports you through six very different emotional phases: (1) denial, (2) anger, (3) bargaining, (4) depression, (5) acceptance, and (6) complacency. This emotional journey is normal and a necessary part of recovery.
4. Do Not Skip Meals - Each puff of nicotine was your spoon releasing stored fats and sugars into your bloodstream. It allowed you to skip meals without experiencing wild blood-sugar swing symptoms such as an inability to concentrate or hunger related anxieties. Don't add needless symptoms to withdrawal. Learn to spread your normal daily calorie intake out more evenly over the entire day. Don't eat more food but less food more often.
Drink plenty of acidic fruit juice the first three days. Cranberry is excellent and a bottle will cost about the same as a pack. It will help to both accelerate the up to 72 hours needed to remove the alkaloid nicotine from your body and help stabilize blood sugars. Take care beyond three days as juices can be rather fattening.
5. Avoid All Crutches - A crutch is any form of quitting reliance that you lean upon so heavily in supporting recovery that if quickly removed would likely result in relapse (a person, product, service or activity). If you feel the need to lean upon a quitting buddy be sure that your buddy is either a sturdy long-time ex-smoker or a never-smoker.
You do not need to give up any activity when quitting except for using nicotine. Likewise, successful long-term quitting is not dependent upon you engaging in any new activity either. Contrary to the junkie-thinking you've likely fed your mind, everything you did as a smoker you'll soon adjust to doing as well or better as an ex-smoker.
6. Crave Coping Techniques - You have conditioned your mind to expect the arrival of nicotine when encountering various times, places, activities, people, events or emotions. The first time you encounter each crave trigger you should expect a short yet possibly powerful anxiety episode lasting up to three minutes.
Don't fear or hide from your triggers but confront and extinguish each of them. You'll find that most are re-conditioned by a single encounter during which the subconscious mind does not receive the expected result - nicotine. Welcome and embrace every episode as each reflects a beautiful moment of subconscious healing, and the reclaiming of another aspect of your life.
One crave coping technique is to practice slow deep breathing while clearing your mind of all needless chatter by focusing on your favorite person, place or thing. Another is to say your ABCs while associating each letter with your favorite food, person or place. For example, "A" is for grandma's hot apple pie, and "B" is for ..." It's doubtful you'll ever reach the challenging letter "Q."
7. Cessation Time Distortion - A recent study found that nicotine cessation causes significant time distortion. Although no subconsciously triggered crave episode will last longer than three minutes, to a quitter the minutes can feel like hours. Keep a clock handy to maintain honest perspective.
8. Alcohol Issues - Roughly half of quitters who relapse have alcohol in their bloodstream. Consuming an inhibition diminishing substance in the presence of smokers, while attempting to navigate the first few days of withdrawal, is a recipe for relapse. Unless facing alcoholism issues you will be able to handle alcohol again with a bit of practice.
Break drinking down into smaller manageable steps as soon as you get your quitting legs under you. Try drinking at home first without smokers around. When you go out with smokers either refrain from drinking the first time, drink less, or space drinks a bit further apart than normal. Have an escape plan, and a back-up, and be prepared to use both.
If you cannot refrain from alcohol for a few days then you may be dealing with dual dependency issues. Alcoholics do best when they either give up both nicotine and alcohol at the same time, or alcohol first.
9. Caffeine/Nicotine Interaction - Amazingly, nicotine somehow doubles the rate by which the body depletes caffeine. It means that your blood-serum caffeine level will double if no caffeine intake reduction is made when quitting. Although not a problem for most light to moderate caffeine users, consider cutting caffeine intake by roughly half if troubled by anxieties or experiencing difficulty relaxing or sleeping.
10. The Smoking Dream - Be prepared for an extremely vivid smoking dream as tobacco odors released by horizontal healing lungs are swept up bronchial tubes by rapidly healing cilia, and come in contact with a vastly enhanced sense of smell. See it as the wonderful sign of healing it reflects and nothing more.
11. Ongoing Support - A ninety day source of ongoing support can substantially enhance your odds of long-term success. Motivation reinforcement ranges from recording and carrying your list of reasons for quitting, sharing your feelings with supportive friends or family, recruiting a long-term ex-smoker, reading online at free quitting message boards at WhyQuit or the American Cancer Society, or posing your quitting questions to professional counselors at sites such as AskJoel. If you do not have Internet access it's likely available for free at your local library.
12. Relapse - Remember that there are only two good reasons to take a puff once you quit. You decide you want to go back to your old level of consumption until smoking cripples and then kills you, or you decide you really enjoy withdrawal and you want to make it last forever. As long as neither of these options appeals to you the solution is as simple as ... no nicotine just one day at a time, Never Take Another Puff!
The above tips are a small sampling of the educational offerings available at WhyQuit.com, the Internet's oldest forum devoted to the art, science and psychology of taking the cold out of quitting cold. A free quitting resource staffed entirely by volunteer professional cessation educators, WhyQuit carries the not-for-profit concept to the extreme of actually declining donation offers.
Visitors to the site can download a free 149 page PDF quitting book by Joel Spitzer. Spitzer has devoted over thirty years to helping Chicago area nicotine smokers break free Entitled Never Take Another Puff, it's an insightful collection of over 90 short articles on almost every quitting topic imaginable.
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